To day i was at a sister house , i visit her every Monday she's wheel chair bound . she cant go out much so its gets lonely for her and she's only 35 . so i visit her every Monday cook her something ect ...she has mashallah 3 children this is like the second visit iv made to her , we soon discovered we have alot in common we both love art and generally into the whole funky side to life . she's a fashion designer very soon i told her am doing a diploma in it , I'm hoping to become a children's fashion designer perhaps we can start something to together ? online ?
i think its amazing how Allah just puts people in your life , i always contemplate the new people that arrive in my life its not a coincidence and certainly not an accident . whenever i experience a problem in my life someone just comes from know were and answerer's a question that i have had on my mind for a while that's not a COINCIDENCE ...that's Allah . Its the little things in life that truly make a difference . If we just contemplate the little things in life you will see how truly this life were living in is for learning . sadly some people just don't get it . some people get it when their in old age . some never get it .
getting to the point about problems . well we spoke about her legs how shes temporarily unable to move properly until inshallah she will have a hip operation (may Allah make it easy for her ameen) . she said how having children changed her , how she doesn't want to blame her children . i said no its not your children its life we change and grow things have to happen for us to realise who we are and are able to tackle things and grow on the inside . rather then grow on the outside stay the same on the inside .
its all about growing and becoming a better person . problems shouldn't be issues they need to be their to make you better 'for you to learn' . look at problems as well a game right how am i going to pass this game ? i need to understand what tools i shall need to win this game then when you win the game you can contemplate and think ahh that's what i needed to know . when you loose the game that's 'OK' you've still learnt something , you can teach others .
But off course its all about whether your interested in learning its all down to you are you interested ?
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Salam alaikom sister:)
Lovely post. Subhan'Allah, like you said, everything happens for a reason. It's up to us to notice things or just look at face value.
May Allah speed her recovery and reward you for your help, Ameen.
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